I want to ask Enroad were you referring to SF over the internet or on your campus. Well, I, myself am a SF. I couldn't beleve what I read. I thought that was what this forum was for---to guide us, SF, along with the assistance of the memberfriends, to the right path into Alpha Kappa Alpha land. If this is a situation on campus, I feel that you wouldn't even have this problem if you would have been discreet. I know that you may have been excited about expressing your interest to friends. I feel that it is okay to express your interest in xyz sorority in an anonymous way, like we all have been doing on GC. Now people know your interested. They may have an idea that you know somethings because you have been researching for three years. I also feel that this should have never been expressed. As a memberfriend asked, how would you feel if you didn't get in, and you leaked information to another SF, and they got accepted. It wouldn't have been a problem if you were discreet in your information. As you have said you were wrong to question someone else's knowledge and research, I agree with you. I have never had that idea in my head. I think it is commendable that Sf's are doing their research, and a SF may have looked over something that you didn't miss. Otherwise over the internet, I don't see how it woould compose a problem if you guided a SF to a source where you may have found some pertinent info that you may have thought would be beneficial to you sucess towards Alpha Kappa Alpha. The internet is anonymous, we don't know each other from Adam. It wouldn't hurt. We are supposed to be working together. So when I first came to GC, I was directed to the website
www.aka1908.com. Your research is your research, if you want to keep it to yourself that's fine. You have received some good responses to your topic. And I hope it helps you.
Good Luck, SF