Greetings:
I know you said sisterfriends but I thought I would share something with you.
It is one thing to "help" (or should I say "help") another bro/sisterfriend out after and only after you know what their motivations are; it is another to "give" (or should I say "give") to those who are lazy and looking for a free handout. Mind you this is a lifelong decision and not some handout at the soup kitchen.
Having said this, I feel that whatever decisions are to be made you must keep the following things in mind:
1. Is the person I am "considering" (and we all should "cosider" instead of just DO!) a person I would have been friends with if it were not XYZ (or in your case AKA)?
2. Will this person still be my friend if neither of us make it (once you try out and don't make it you will be AMAZED at how many folks do 1080's. this is how you find out who is genuine and who is full of sh-)?
3. What has this person or what is this person capable of contributing to the pot (or team if you prefer to refer yourselves as a team)?
After analyzation, I feel that only you and only you can make that decision. I'm not speaking as a member of an organization but a young one trying to follow the correct path as you. But consider this, the way we ponder our thoughts of other people; those before us (I hope I'm not jumping the gun here) have pondered the same as us.
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P. S. Feels good to be back.
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