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Originally posted by Elevated1:
I know how highly disrespectful it is for me to be posting a message in this forum, but I was just curious as to what constitutes a "negative" post. I suppose my audacity to have started a thread without first saying how much I respect and revered you ladies may have had something to do with it, but I started a topic about the website and it was promptly deleted. However another SF posted a question on the same topic, and somehow she did not receive the same reaction as mine did. My thread was deleted and then the old thread, which honestly did not answer my question, was bumped back up with a message to be patient and basically to mind my own business (I'm paraphrasing of course.) this is disheartening to me, as I have been a striving SF for three years, and am well aware of what I've been told is proper ettiquette. also I've monitored these boards for upwards of two years, and used to post quite frequently under another name, yet I never felt that people were rude to me. I realize that now, even posting this, I will be called psychotic, immature, disrespectful...but I've always been taught to address an issue that's concerning me. I'm just happy I've learned to treat people as I want to be treated, regardless of whether or not I feel I posess something that gives me a false sense of superiority, because I will let nothing and no one separate me from the love of God. Again, i realize how much of an uncouth heathen I am, thank you for your time.
And to the other SF's...Is it really necessary to harp on how clueless and inept other sf's are all the time. Can't you be more confident in your own abilities and attributes that you don't have to tear another down to elevate yourself.
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Negative posts are basically posts that are made to purposefully cause trouble. We have a few who pop up from time to time to do just that. That is what is meant by a negative post. I don't remember what post you made about a website, but we have two posts like that now, and that may be why yours was deleted, I don't know.
I will say this, though, your post is way off base. Psychotic, no, you have a LOOOOONG way to go for that, lol. But we ladies of Alpha Kappa Alpha don't need anyone to toot our horns. We are not looking for anyone to revere (sp?) us or tell us how much they respect us. We're not insecure like that. We already KNOW (right, Soror Convinced?

) that we have it going on! As far as having a false sense of superiority, I'm not really sure what to say about that one, either.

If you've monitored THIS board for 2 years, then you know how we run thangs up in here. It sounds to me like you may be insecure about some things, otherwise, you would not have thought that my post was about you or even had anything to do with you (what's that phrase? a hit dog will holler?). I don't know what to say about that, either.
In closing, please don't let the resurrection of this thread cause any more hoopla than it already has. Please continue on with all the good convos and fun we've been having. It's really not that deep, really.