Ladies we have to realize that some people attempt to use this forum as an attention seeker while the majority use it for entertainment and conversation. It may be something missing from their lives, be it family relationships or lack of friendships. Attention seekers want the spotlight whether it's negative or positive and you can usually weed these people out very early. Usually negative responses gain more attention so this is the avenue in which the person seeks. I know we all frequent this site on a regular basis, but when you check a profile and a person who has been registered for less than a month has over 100 post, then a red light should flash. Let's not give anyone that power to ruin the positive vibe that has been established. If a person knocks on your door in an effort to get your attention and you turn off the porch light, eventually they will get their a$$ off your porch and go home....right? So with this being said, I refuse to give unstable folks any more spotlight time. If I've struck a nerve, the guilty party will respond no doubt.


[This message has been edited by Total Elegance (edited June 20, 2001).]