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Question: How much of the appeal, I wonder, is age/maturity/point in life related? (and I'm not questioning anyone's maturity level no matter what their age) I mean, no one wants any one thing -- be it thug, or nerd -- all the time.
But I think as people mature (I'll speak for myself--late 30s) I'm less interested in seriously dating someone who is radically different from me. Yeah, be different, show me some things I don't know, give me new perspectives to consider, but don't be so far out there that agreement on more than 3 or 4 big issues is beyond reach.
It's probably less relevant for guys -- the closest I ever got to falling for a "female thug" was Vivica Fox in "Set It Off." ...I still can't believe they kilt ole girl her like that.
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