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Originally posted by RedefinedDiva
I think that the thug appeal is what attracts a lot of women. Most of us have grown up "straight-laced" and dating a guy that is edgy and/or introduces us to another, more "risky" or daring, side of life is part of the appeal. With so much going around about being a "ride or die" chick, women are falling into that.
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I agree. Me, I'm structured, focused, goofy, sometimes impatient and maybe a teeny tiny tad bit high maintenance.
So, I want someone who is a little spontaneous and raw. Somebody who can be real and tell me when I'm acting like a b*%ch and speak their mind. I think someone with some street credibility is a turn on. I'm most comfortable with the ENYCE/Vokal wearing brotha. I've been with someone who was like me in a lot of ways. He was really really smart, so much that he intimidated me. But he was so uptight...ugh.