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Deltabrat wrote:
Opposites attract but typically, there is probably more in common within their personalities that not.
I think that opposites attract -- initially -- but ultimately people vibe best with those of like mind/spirit. Everyone has a natural curiosity about what's different. Factor in the emotional component inherent in relationship situations, and what's different can be even more attractive.
But we always return home. That's why we typically spend all our time trying to "change" the person to be more like we really wanted all along.
As to the examples presented, Vivica-50 cent (I'm still trippin' off that one) those are high-profile, Hollywood-type situations with a whole different set of dynamics most of us don't normally have to deal with in relationships anyway.
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