There is nothing wrong at all about telling your kinders what Greek Life is about!
While I do not have Children, I consider ALL of the Guys at my Chapter as surrogates some what!
Legacys have been shown two times on GC, one the Younger Foos at UG and PDT, and by justamom whose son was a 4 legacy young man.
One went with his legacy when he did not get a Bid, Boo On SN for that and one who went LXA on his own.
The important thing to me, is at least they went Greek!
Legacys do not gauarntee a bid. Each Indivdual has different thoughts than a Brother, Father or Grandfather. Each Chapter is differrent!
I tell every young person who comes into the Store, I hope you look at and go LXA, but if not right, at least think strongly about becoming a Greek!