Is there anyone that you didn't ask to be in the wedding because of their schedule (i.e. grad student, etc), and now its looking like they may have the time? If its someone who would have ordinarily been a BM, except for their schedule, maybe they would make a good choice?
I'm anal, so having uneven numbers of BM and GM would bug the hell outa me...maybe you could demote a groomsman to an usher, if he doesn't mind, as long as he's still allowed to go to all the bachelor party festivities?
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