This has been a difficult one for me too...I mean, I've seemed to have improved substantially in not getting an attitude w/ people so easily, curtailing my lies (I use to call in sick w/ NO regrets-stuff like that)...but, I just can't seem to not want a little sumthin' B4 marriage..and, I feel so guilty about it (fa real)..I tried the whole celibacy thing, but it just doesn't seem to take on a permanent & consistent basis
..I mean, there's no better feeling than when God is smiling on you & you KNOW He's smiling on you..but, it's a heavy heavy weight when you KNOW you're doing something that He doesn't approve of...yet, you can't seem to resist continueing to do it..believe me, I've tried...