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Best PNM advice that I was given and have given is to be Genuine!
After I first joined and even after that, I had members tell me that they loved me and I stuck out during rush because they could tell I was really genuine and really wanted to be part of their sisterhood. When you meet twenty to thirty girls a day, a rusher can usually easily see through the ones that are faking their enthusiasm and those that are truly excited. So, just be yourself and it will all work out!
A little side note, I don't know if people will agree with me but what I did when I was entering the house was to let my rusher know that I was so excited to be back. Similarly, when I was leaving the house, I also nonchalantly told my rusher that I hoped to see her tomorrow. Houses are not allowed to tell you anything like that (its like a verbal bid or promise) but there are no rules (or at least at my school) against a PNM saying it. However, its key NOT TO OVERDO IT. Just say it casually and it the flow of conversation and not too needy or overstated. Okay, sorry if that is too wordy or lond-winded but my cousin who was Recuitment Chair of her sorority said it is a good way to let the house know you like them and want to come back.
It sounds like you have three amazing houses to go to today and I wish you lots of luck!
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