I am dealing with the same problem with two BGLO sororities, I have yet to discover the answer yet, some would tell u to follow your heart but loyalty especially that of family relations is just as important and who knows this chapter does not impact the greatness of the whole org. sadly im between a rock and a hard place and have resolved to pray about it, I was wondering if you would email me at teva-bear@usa.com and tell me the names of the sororities after all we might be between the same two.peace!!