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Old 06-14-2001, 09:00 PM
Riley Riley is offline
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Originally posted by sphinxpoet:
Question,
What if you don't live with that person get married and find out you drive each other up the wall? Should you divorce then?

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Sometimes it just doesn't matter. People will get divorce at times for any little thing . Some people shouldn't even live together let alone get married. Since marriage is such a sacred institution you should be ready mentally to take that step and be committed to one another just like the vows said "for better or for worse".

I also have to agree with DST Love, "I think if you date someone long enough and in the right 'manner', then you will learn as much as you need to in order to learn to live and deal with them." Reguardless if you live with the person before marriage or not if your relationship was on point before hand than that will follow you into your marriage.

I wasn't sure my relationship was going to last the first few months we lived together but we decided if we couldn't live together now how would we do it in the future? Now four years later our relationship has grown stronger and deeper. No matter what it definately depends on the foundation of the relationship the two of you have.


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