much respect...
this is a great topic! and I will make my comments brief. Living with someone or not is a personal preference as someone else said. But its always fascinated me how someone will on one hand say...*not anyone here just in general since i have had this conversation before*
"i would not live with someone before marriage its just too sacred"
but on the other hand
"i don't mind pre-marital sex."
i think that in some ways the two go hand in hand. One is not willing to share personal space with someone except in the bedroom? and let it be known that when you marry your privacy for the most part is gone...so whats the difference between living with someone and being married to them? a ring, a sheet of paper?
if one is against living with someone before marriage then they should also *seemingly* be against pre-marital sex. if so...then from this board there are ALOT more virgins than i thought there were in this world.
no disrespect just coming at it from another angle.
peace
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