Ok, I know that whoever was talking about the licking girls all over, from the neck to the stomach and then up the leg, thouht it was really hot. Well, I can't stand it. I like a little nibble on my ear LOBE (not in the canal...ewww) and little licks on my lips between kisses, but that's it. I don't want to be covered in your saliva when we're done.
Good kissers start soft and slow. Putting your top lip between their lips, slightly sticking out their tongue periodically to ease you into more intense action. Then there's some more tongue, but this doesn't mean you stick your tongue in my mouth and we move our heads from side to side for an hour. You have a serious tongue kiss for a couple seconds, move back, have couple of slightly less drmatic kisses, then go back in for the killer again. It's a pattern fellas! And you don't need to go itching the back of my throat with your tongue, it's really quite alright. Gagging is not sexy.
It's also very good to put one hand behind my head, and one on my back, lower preferably, then switch them/move them around. Have both onmy back then one and one, then both in my hair, or on the side of my face and neck.
Basically, you should act like THE KISS is the most important task right then. Concentrate on not screwing it up. The problem is that some guys are so interested on what the kiss will lead up to, they don't pay attention to the actual act at all. Remember, without a good kiss, you're not getting much further....unless you're really hot of course, then we can overlook that