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Originally posted by valkyrie
In an ideal world, she and the man responsible will discuss this together and come up with a solution that is satisfactory to both of them, whether it be abortion, keep the baby and stay together, keep the baby and one of them takes it or adoption.
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Most of time, the guy is blasted away by the news of impregnating a woman that he puts her off...
If a woman chooses abortion, then without paying outta the yin-yang, there is some time limit...
So basically from what I understand from friends of mine that had these decisions to make, there is no such thing as an "ideal world"...
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Originally posted by valkyrie
I wonder though -- if a woman chooses to give birth and keep the baby knowing that the man didn't want it, is it really fair to demand that he give $$$ to the baby when it wasn't his decision to keep it?...What if the woman was desperate to get pregnant and lied about being on the pill and poked holes in condoms? I don't know if stuff like that ever happens, but it wouldn't shock me.
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Now, that is an area I am quite familiar with being one the opposite side... I was the girlfriend of a man who got another woman pregnant and played the "ghetto games 2000"...
You cannot get that kind of law entertainment with what happens in the "real courtroom"... Chit happens...
I mostly see this happing to women 30+--the biological clock explosive devices. These women make sure they take the ovulation test before they sleep with a man... And because usually, everyone is older, then money can get flown around much more easily... These women DO NOT plan on getting pregnant by some luser... The PLAN on getting pregnant by someone WHO CAN PAY CHILD SUPPORT... Either way, the unsuspecting man has no clue what is about to happen... Let's just say, he is thinking with his "extremities"...
Now a pimp, don't give a dayum about a ho and her problems. If he's a Mac, then that beeaitch best be out on da street to make that $$$...
But most of time, a man that is a contributing member of society with no criminal history and just ain't thinkin'--I feel so sorry for those fellows...
At any rate, most of those kind women do not get abortions...