HeartbrAKA, I agree with Classy Diva--your approach may result in animosity. If you decide to approach Sha'kwan, you should only try the sister approach once. But excuse me for LMAO!
I used to work with a similar hoochie named LaDay Sh'nay (honest, this was her first name), her name, of course, she swore was of French origin.
And I know if the Jill Scott is blaring, she's got to be singing to it--they all do!