Honeychile, I can't say much more above what was already said, but I have broken off an engagement in the past. It was the best decision at the time, and I'm now engaged to a wonderful man who I'm going to marry come Hell or high water.

I will second, third, or fourth all of the above recommendations. It sounds like the two of you have good lines of communication and talking things over with your pastor is a great next step. Whatever your decision may be, feel free to PM me if you want to talk, and know that all of GC will stand behind you in whatever decision you make.

God bless.