[honeychile]

Thank you, thank you, thank you for all the prayers and good wishes! I was praying all night as I waited for him to call.

I told him that he needed to get his priorities straight, and I need to know where I stand in that list. I am not going to have more than three (Jesus - we're both believers) in our marriage. And I must come before the Fire, the White Sox, the Bulls, ESPN, whatever concert is in town, etc, etc.

I also said that counseling was NOT optional, and that I see no further talking about anything until we sit down with the pastor.

He is agreeable to all of this (and more that I mentioned), but I'm not 100% sure if he's just avoiding an arguement. He knows that we WILL discuss this further this weekend, when he's in town. See, this has been long distance, which is not helping any, either. (that could be a whole 'nuther thread!)

So! I covet your prayers, since this will be a big decision, and I need to be led to the right decision for the two of us. God bless each of you who have been so willing to come alongside me tonight. The final decision will be well thought out with pray.

Many, many thanks!