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Valkyrie made some good points and coming from someone who has been in your shoes you can see how she is satisfied with her decision to stay.
I just worry that you are going to retreat to home thinking things will be okay and what should happen if they aren't the same? Like god forbid, what if your relationship ends? Then will you regret your decision?
I also don't think your friends are meaning to joke on you about not going out, but they probably don't know the severity of your problems either. And if you informed them about what is going on, they may be a resource to help you! They may not expect you to go out all the time, but then they'll at least know you're not just blowing them off. And who knows, maybe you'll find out that you're just feeling this way because you TELL yourself you aren't seeking the things you once did, and once you start going out again and be with good company things may get better. I'm not saying go out and party hard core, but go to the movies, or shopping or to the football games. Be with close people!
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