Welcome, Sarah! I am another BSP/APO member. I also first became familiar with Beta Sigma Phi through the internet, and I was able to start a new chapter in Amherst, Massachusetts. Feel free to visit our website!
http://pages.ivillage.com/umassbeta
I am a member of Online Kappa (Jill1228 is a Kappa as well), and I totally LOVE my online chapter. These women are the greatest! Each online chapter is different. Some are more formal with regular meetings (Kappa has monthly meetings), and some are more casual (You can ask "bsp_mich" about Online Alpha Phi). In most cases, you must be a member of a land chapter before joining online.
Well, come back again. I hope you like our forum.
Erica