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Originally posted by southernbelle:
First let me state that I am not a member of any organization. I understand that members do value their letters and their particular organization is very impoortant to them. However, I have witnessed perps get bussed out as well as real members who just don't know the answer to a particular question. (like the neo mentioned in an earlier post).
What I want to know is who is to blame in the case of a real member not knowing something. Is it really fair to be angry at that person? After all aren't they supposed to learn things during their process and if they don't know something it's obvious that they weren't taught.
In my quest for information I was told by a member of the org. I'm interested in that I need to know info on the national site just to have background knowledge and a basic understanding, but anything else I would be taught.
Sorry for being so long winded, but I just want to know who's to blame.
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Yall know I don't usually come out my face on this board but I have to say that southernbelle you made a very ignorant comment, especially for a person looking in or trying to look in. Who are you to say whose fault it is? The unknowing Soror's process may be to 'SOME' blame, but I won't even go there. My Sorority has so much history a pledge process could not cover this, unless you plan to be on line for 90+ years. Anyhow there are senior Sorors that have been members for 50+ years that are still learning. You grow and learn in AKA, nothing is given to you.
And on this whole challenging bit, I am with Soror PositivelyAKA, I dare the next women to test me ... feel free to try and check me, but, and I say this in my G-Ma's native tongue, if ya lay ya 'and on me - sheeeet, we be fighten!!!