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For the most part, I get along with all of my exes. I don't talk to any of them on the phone because I'm married now, but I have before. I dont' see anything wrong wtih still being friends. Some people are only meant to be friends.
As far as severing ties with his family and friends, I would never do that. IMO that's being fake. If I took a liking to you, it's because of the person you are and not who you're related to. There would have to be a way to make sure that my continued relationship wouldn't be stressful on their relationship with my ex (if the break up was bad) before I would continue. I still talk to two of my exes grandmothers because I love them dearly for the beautiful souls they are. It has nothing to do with my exes. At first my exes didn't like it, but they understand. I don't interfere when I know they are around so they don't trip off it anymore.
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