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Originally posted by Chi_ZETABBW:
AKA_MONET: Sisterfriend may I ask your age??? I'm just curious, if you rather not say I respect that. I ask the age question because as you get older, you will run into more and more men who are "SEPARATED".
I'm 36, and maybe I'm the "elder" you were posing your question too.
Depending on the circumstances "separated" is fine with me. Not the type of "separation" where they still living with the wife for financial reasons. But actually have a legal separation(which so many blacks fail to get done). I met my second(present) husband and he was "separated". His own apartment, phone, car, etc that showed he had no ties to his wife with those things. We dated 2 years before he actually got his divorce.
As for small children, good luck getting around that issue too. This society has people making babies with every new relationship. I was "BLESSED" yet again that my husband had no children.
Soory this is so long.
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First off: I'm 30 something...
I do not have major issues with a bruh that has children and is
divorced. That legal separation thing... I'll havta disagree with you on that one. But hey, we do what we gotta do...
I understand as we get older, more and more bruhs are gonna be in that situation. Especially if we, the professional sistas, are unmarried without children...
My question is, after all the hard work, after all the degrees, after all the promotions, trials and tribulations, is it
FAIR to those of us that feel we deserve better than what we are encountering? Just asking...