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Originally posted by AKA_Monet:
How do you all--the elder ones--deal with that BS!!!
I say, call me when you have the signed divorce papers so that I can see them...
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Hey, SF! Yeah, that is a great start! Anything that a man will do to his wife (or anyone for that matter) is typically a pattern, and he will do it to you. If you don't want your soon-2-be ex dating someone else before the ink is dry, then don't do it to him. One thing we, as women, have a tendency to do is think we are the exception to the rule. Even if you are, think you are not. It is safer. I have seen so many women think that the person who they are involved with who is in a situation like the one you mentioned are in an extraordinary situation, and if it was another woman, the guy would not go there.
OK Then! 
If he wants you, he will totally understand and respect your decision to wait for the papers!
BTW, I read this in
Acts of Faith (I. Vanzant) years ago, and I always remembered it....
There are 3 keys to successful relationships...Never make anyone else responsible for your happiness, trust what your inner self feels, sees and says, and pay close attention to the warning signs! Good Luck!
soror6!
Oh, Imperial11, Congrats, Neo!
