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Originally posted by Queencece
Just wondering about the men and the women. After the love is gone, what do you do to cheer yourself up?
Ex: I broke up with my ex about 4 months ago, and I went out and bought myself a new stereo for my car (which I needed). A new pair of glasses, a trip to Vegas, and a new jacket (for the fall).
Does anyone else out there besides me buy themselves things to cheer them up after a bad break up or after a really bad fight?
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Never go into debt over a man and a break up...
But that is the time when you need to have "self-care" and do an introspection of yourself to lift yourself up...
Read and re-read Iyanla Vanzant's
In The Meantime and you will realize exactly where you need to be given your circumstances...
What I did when I broke up was to get my hair, my nails and a pedicure... Then work on a massage and facial with a bikini wax... Then I would buy some VS's or Frederick's or La Perla's and I'd hook myself up--'cuz you outta look really good when a guy breaks up with you--'cuz if he does and you look good, hell, evry'body is naturally gonna think it was his loss and you're better off...