I just wanted to say that I also agree that the girl should be commended. It takes much courage to not go along with the group particularly when taking a stand can have such dire consequences.
I wonder how many of us, if put in the same situation, would react the same way. [I would like to state here that discrimnation(sp)--as I am sure we all know--comes in many different forms. What if this person were gay, or white and trying to get into a BGLO? How would all of us who so readily commend this girl for her stand would do the same?