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Nichole, I'm sorry to hear about your experience, but all things do happen for a reason, and in time, we learn the fuller meaning of "Why" they happen.
I wish you only best! It is possible to get snap bidded by a strong competitive chapter. It happens all the time, b/c they will make quota, but a girl or two will come to bid day crying because she didn't get her first choice and drops immediately. The sorority discreetly goes through their lists and makes a couple of of phone calls; the chapter members never even know b/c it is all handled on the DL. So if you can be asked to prefs, DO go.
I'm not promising anything, but sometimes these things DO happen, and who knows-- they could happen to you! I encourage you to kick butt this fall in school in try COB in the spring. You never know!!!!
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