I know that I have guy friends. I think that, at first, for BOTH parties, the attraction is sexual/physical. But it eventually can move past that....I think the problem happens when one of the friends gets a romatic partner and two things could happen:
1) The friend of the opposite sex may wonders if their friend was/is "The One" and gets envious of the romantic partner
2) The friend of the opposite sex gets jealous of the romantic partner of the other friend for taking up their friend's time
3) The romantic partner worries that the friend of the opposite sex wants to be "more than friends" and gets jealous of the relationship b/w the two...
Insecurity is a sunufabiatch!
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