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Originally posted by KappaKittyCat
I think that "regret with interest" happens this way: Polly PNM gets invited back to seven houses but can only go to five. She doesn't want to go to one, so that's easy, but she has a hard time choosing between the other six, so she finally chooses five and regrets ABC with interest. If, for some reason, she's cut from all but three houses on a four-party day, ABC can invite her to their party if they want to.
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My school uses "regret with interest," and you are correct. I have no idea if this is in the Green Book or not.
Regarding my earlier post, I think I'm going to make a point to not go off on tirades on GC about recruitment and the smaller house when I'm PMSing. shadokat, you made some excellent points in your reply, but it does definitely vary from campus to campus. (At my school, most of the bidless PNMs were ones that wanted the big popular chapter or nothing, even though the smaller houses-mine and one other chapter-have fantastic, welcoming, and close sisterhoods, so it's hard for me to have any sympathy for them, which definitely clouds my opinion.)