amandamarie,
I know you're already going through Pref, but i wanted to add my support! I'll admit that all through rush week, I was torn and I liked one group a lot. I was cut from that group right before pref and I was heartbroken. I ended up preffing Alpha Phi (which was my third choice overall). After pref, I knew Alpha Phi was my home. The ceremony moved me so much that there was no doubt in my mind I where I wanted to be. I do believe that everything happens for a reason and I couldn't be happier with my decision! As a matter of fact, two years after graduation, I'm still involved with my chapter as an advisor!
Know that whatever happens, you have a huge support system here on Greek Chat. We're all pulling for you!!!! Follow your heart!
~Jessica