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Originally posted by sueali
I'm not condoning (sp) cutting because someone is engaged but I do know the reasoning behind it. Most people will become alumni or go inactive once they are married, so I believe the chapters are thinking she won't be around for very long. This is really the same reason they don't want upper classmen either, they want someone who will be there 4 years. However, I believe upper classmen are much more mature and do much more for their chapters in the short time they are there.
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Being engaged, being married or having children are all looked at in kind of the same way -- you have other priorities. Nobody in the sorority is going to hold it against you, but you may not be as available as some of the younger girls who have just shown up at the university and can make the sorority their first priority.
I'm glad you have three great houses for tonight, though.
