amandamarie: *hugs* I know you are disappointed, hon, but as many GC'ers have said, Alpha Phi is a terrific group! Your first impression of them was great, so go to their pref with that impression. Keep in mind too, some houses and girls just are not great rushers. They are just as nervous (if not more!) than you are. They want to make a good impression on a terrific rushee like you, and sometimes that can be intimidating! Pref gives you a good feel of the sisterhood of the house - it all comes down to this night. Even though you cut them, they invited you back! They want you there. Most sororities do not invite girls to pref that they cannot see as their sister. I hope that after tonight, you can see Alpha Phi as yours.
Good luck! And remember, there is always COB!
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