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I don't think that her husband was being unsupportive; he was telling her the truth. He didn't sugar coat a thing or try to make her feel better. He let her know that she has a job to do and that she needs to get on it because she has a family to look out for. With three kids, I am going to assume that Sara was working full time before she came on the show. With her gone, the family is having to make due on one paycheck because I doubt that Diddy is giving them any money yet. If the band fails, it's going to affect more than just Sara. She has mouths to feed. Her husband was letting her know that. She wanted to complain about all that she had to do and he told her that she needs to just suck it up and do what she has to do. Playtime is over.
I can see how his comments might have seemed unsupportive, but I understand where he is coming from. I also have a father and boyfriend who are exactly the same way. They tell me what I need to hear and not what I want to hear. That's just the way that some men are.
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I can understand at times you do need to hear the truth and not have it sugar coated and fed to you on a spoon. I am that way most of the time. But i think there are other times that you need to feel like you have someone in your corner. Of he is since he the at home mom right now. From my opinion of Sara...she has understood fully how important this is and how hard she needs to buckle down and work. She doesn't have that slacker mentatily like some of the others do. She knows she can easily be replaced so she works hard to get it done. You can only respect her for that. But it just sounded to me (of course editing is a wonderful tool) that she just need some one to say WOO WOO WOO it be ok... just don't give up. Understand?