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Originally posted by evaclear04
And is it me or Did her last converstion with him seem like he was not as supportive as he should have been?
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I don't think that her husband was being unsupportive; he was telling her the truth. He didn't sugar coat a thing or try to make her feel better. He let her know that she has a job to do and that she needs to get on it because she has a family to look out for. With three kids, I am going to assume that Sara was working full time before she came on the show. With her gone, the family is having to make due on one paycheck because I doubt that Diddy is giving them any money yet. If the band fails, it's going to affect more than just Sara. She has mouths to feed. Her husband was letting her know that. She wanted to complain about all that she had to do and he told her that she needs to just suck it up and do what she has to do. Playtime is over.
I can see how his comments might have seemed unsupportive, but I understand where he is coming from. I also have a father and boyfriend who are exactly the same way. They tell me what I
need to hear and not what I
want to hear. That's just the way that some men are.