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To the original poster - Yes, I understand just where you are coming from, as I have felt the same way sometimes too. How to solve the problem? I don't know. If you avoid pledging girls until the internal drama is caused....well, the internal drama won't matter because you might not have a chapter by that time. There isn't really a way to incorporate, "Hey, sister XYZ gets drunk all the time" "Sister ABC has been accused to talking behind people's backs and stealing." *shrugs* I just don't know!
33girl: Great point about if they don't know the internal dramas by the end of the pledge program, then you haven't opened up to them. Every girl who pledges a Greek org wants to make her house better through her special skills, personality, etc...If new members have a chance to see the internal dramas, which most of the time are completely normal!, they might dispel some of it.
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