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Originally posted by De6
I did NOT have a chance to save...they were always asking for money.Although,I was able to get my school supplies.I told them that I do NOT mind giving,but when you make plans with my money I get mad.They knew what I was working for.I do NOT expect them to do anything for me...I have learned my limitations with them.The only one I really expect things from is my mother.If I ask and you do fine,if I ask and you don't do,fine.How would you feel if when you went shopping someone EXPECTED you to buy them what they wanted?My thing is,they gamble and do what they want with their money and ask me to give them money for things THEY should be taking care of.Then,if I feel that I should NOT have to pay for their mistakes,I get the whole guilt trip thing.I understand that we all have our rough times,but I refuse to fall into the pattern that have chosen to follow.I will NOT be in a financial bind my last year of high school.If I have my own,I don't have to worry about begging others,especially my family.I have simple needs and wants...I like the better things in life,but I do NOT loose my mind.Like I said,my needs and wants are pretty much met.It's just that I do NOT know how to handle my family when it comes to money.
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So why don't you go to your family and speak with them like you vented here in your post?
Remember, the ounce of money you had on a summer job doesn't compare to the money your parents spend on you for everyday living.
In the words of Judge Mathis, "Life is rough, you gotta make due."