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thats life
I see this is a very interesting topic based on the replys...
Anyway, I think all sororities are upfront about costs and dues. I know mine is. We also give PNM the option of fundraising their fees.
As far as drama within an organization... It's everywhere. Where you go to school, where you work. Within groups of friends and family. (My family at least.) That's life.
Maybe you should consider having a discussion where everything is out in the open. Talk about how you feel. If someone is habitually late for meetings, say something! If so and so is talking behind someones back, say something. If you cannot be open with the sisters you love, then whats the point? Until you talk about how you feel--you will feel miserable. Honesty is going to be very important.
A sorority is going to have drama. It's a bunch of females with different opinions, personalities and ideas. Females that work, go to school, spend time with family and friends and boyfriends. And still get up on time to go do community service, study for a test, etc...and probably all during that time of the month. It's hard! Whatever, it's hell! But it's all worth it. Talk it out with your sisters or else it may never get resolved.
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