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Personally, I'm at a point where I wouldn't date someone if I didn't think it would be a long-term relationship or turn into marriage. You said that you're not trying to marry him-- so you already know that he's not the type of guy you'd want to marry? My ex and I went to the same school, but during breaks we were 4 hours away, and for me that was tough but we made it work. I say that if you don't feel that this could be a serious relationship, then I wouldn't start anything. There's always a possibility it could end nasty, and if you love being around him, then maintain the strong friendship you have. Maybe you should hold off for a little before starting a relationship right away... see how you feel with some distance between the two of you... and if you miss him too much, then you'll know that you should start a relationship... if your feelings are leaning more toward out of sight out of mind, then you'll know not to start anything.
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