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Originally posted by Glitter650
I mean I know personally I was in a little bubble when I first joined and def. had a moment where it "popped" I mean it wasn't like a horrible pop... but my eyesight def. became 20/20 and I think we need to make sure new members still have that love for the org after all the attention is taken off of them you know ?
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I went through the same thing and it was kind of rough for a little while, but that's just how it is, you know? My "real" sisters and I fight, so it naturally follows that sorority sisters will fight sometimes, too. One thing that I've always thought is a little unfair, though, is glossing over exactly how much a sorority can cost...I know we don't want to discourage PNMs by trotting out these scary astronomical amounts of money and saying, "Well, this is what you gotta pay, or you're out!" But singing the praises of payment plans and making PNMs think it's cake even if they don't have the cash isn't good, either. Nearly every chapter on my campus did this, and the first bill came as a shock to my parents even though my sorority was nowhere near being the most expensive.