Great post, trisigmaAtl! I agree, I don't think that chapters should feel embarassed to snap bid or COB women that they truly want as part of their chapter. You wouldn't offer a bid to a woman you didn't want, and I think snap bidded women who suicided another house should think about the fact that this chapter can overlook their initial decision and give them a second chance at sisterhood. (BTW, I was COB'd, too!
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