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I've thought about this too... I mean... honestly, no it isn't fair.. HOWEVER.... do they tell you all the cruddy stuff about the job at the interview ? Do the potential members come in saying "hey you know.. generally I'm a good person.. but I sometimes get posessive/ moody/mean ? COURSE NOT.... everyone has their flaws.. just as the org. *probably* has some flaws... everyone is showing their best side... I mean personally as long as the good out weighs the bad (which in most cases, it does) then it's all worth it and no body is hurt.. it's not like we're hiding our ritualistic animal sacrifices here... and besides what group of friends doesn't have it's own personal drama anyway ?? we women just kinda like to create drama... it's nothing new. This brings up a question though... how do we as active sisters keep up the new member spirit ? I mean I know personally I was in a little bubble when I first joined and def. had a moment where it "popped" I mean it wasn't like a horrible pop... but my eyesight def. became 20/20 and I think we need to make sure new members still have that love for the org after all the attention is taken off of them you know ?
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