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hey! i have had a similar experience to that of your daughter's momoftwo...last year i started college at a small private liberal arts school...before going i had really no interest in greek life at all...i never even thought of myself as being part of it...but i did plan on trying out for the band and orchestra here which i did. and i was so glad i did...i don't know what i would have done without music...and it was through music that i rekindled a friendship with someone i had gone to high school with who was in a sorority that was new to the college this year. because of her i decided to attend rush and then pledge...and i am so glad i did. it was the most worthwhile part of my freshman year...my sisters have been here for me for everything and it's amazing the bond that i share with them. but i had to make that decision on my own...and i'm sure that your daughter will make the deicision that is right for her in her own time. but the important thing is to be supportive. my mother wasn't entirely thriled when i called her up to say that i was pledging a sorority, but she supported the decision that i had made and a few months later she told me that she was so glad that i had joined the sorority because it made me so happy. so just give your daughter time and she will find the path that she is supposed to follow.
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