yes- i definately know what you mean... i love my sisters but a lot of the time- i really feel like there is just way to much drama to deal with- this girl doesn't like this one- or she slept with him so she's mad at her- or whatever.... we had a lot of problems with one particular sister this past semester and summer and now she is dissafiliating..... in some ways this is a good thing because she is not good for us- she is a very difficult person to get along with- but it is sad that it came down to that- and i am rush chair this year- and i know it will be hard to talk of all the good things but i hope they realize that with a group of girls- its not always fun and games but there are a lot of upsides.... idk its something you struggle with- and you are right- there is more to life than just greek- outside stuff- and its very important to (keep your sanity) to include these other parts- encourage other girls to do the same.... idk i know exactly waht you mean and i wonder why i stay in it sometimes b/c it gets really upsetting... but one breath and one step at a time and take the good with the bad- its like anything else i guess... you can PM me any time if you wanna vent! lol
