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Speaking as a mother of three, I have to say that I did not have anyone in the room with me but my husband. After my little darlings were born, I was so drugged up and sleepy (between the baby, and the nurses coming in every two hours, and all my visitors), I could not tell you who came and who didn't! I wanted to shut the door and lock it! For the second two babies, I told everyone to stay at home and let me rest while in the hospital! I know "the thing to do" is to go and visit new mothers and babies at the hospital, but as someone who has experienced it three times, my recommendation to all is to wait until mom and baby go home, and then take dinner/presents/balloons/whatever by within the first two - three weeks. C-sections usually require longer hospital stays, and the recovery period is more difficult than a normal delivery. I agree with other posts that say your sister will appreciate your help at home - keeping the house straight, doing a few loads of laundry, watching the baby while she sleeps. I have a biological sister too, and understand where your concerns are. I would definately discuss it with her, and see what you can work out! Hugs to you in making this difficult decision!
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