I keep reading and rereading this thread.
Okay, here it goes! # 1 when I first saw a Black in one of our composites I was going crazy! I met Brother R J and We are close Brothers!
When I met a Brother who told me he was Gay from another Chapter and we met, We Are Still not only Brothers But very close Friends!
I have since found out there were Gay members of my Chapter that I knew, my comment was so what!
Jono Sent me a book "Out On Fraterity Row" that lists Greek Orgs by the members who have said they were gay!
Yes, it is a fact of life!
Now in the small minds of I am going So&So, oh they have a gay, you dont want to be a gay memeber!
Tell them to Kiss Your ass! These are very nice and intelligent people who really care for the same things that We do In Our Chapters!
Oh, dont go XYZ, They are to big size wise, Oh dont go with ABC they are all Blondes!
Bah HUMBUG!
If they are Good Members in Good Standing, smart, doing for your Org. Well liked and fun, Get Off Your Ass and support them! They are Your Sisters!