I totally agree with shadokat (and not just because I am crossing everything I can to have another carnation kid in my sorority!!!
)! If I was an in-house legacy and I didn't get preffed by my sister, I'd be hurt I think. I mean, as a rushee I went into Pref expecting to talk to the women I most connected with in each house, hoping that would make my decision clear. In both of my Prefs I was paired with girls I already knew quite well from the University's dance team. Would you consider that "dirty", sweetiepie? I think it's pretty much the same situation. You know and love a girl outside of rush and you want to hear from her, because you trust her, how much you should be in her house. Just my thoughts...