I think the best way to show interest as was stated earlier is to attend infomationals, functions, programs, etc.. Depending on the members themselves, some may be open to interested women asking them questions and some may not. People approach me all the time and I don't mind, but some of my sorors do. Sometimes it may seem as if interested girls are trying to be our friends because we have what they want.
If you go to all of the programs/functions, try to make small talk there. Let them know who you are and get your name out there. One can show interest without actually comming out and saying, "I want to be in your sorority, how can I be down".
As was said earlier be careful of what you talk about and who you talk to. You never know what someone will not/will say to someone else. You never know who may be around and listening. You may think you are having an innocent and private conversation and someone takes it, tells someone, who tells another and another and another.... remember the telephone game. I have seen this hurt people, so it may be in one's best interest to keep things to themselves.
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