Cali_girl, My heart and my prayers go out to you! I won't even try to give you advice, but I would like to ask a question. You seem to be looking at two alternatives: abortion and raising the child as a single parent. Have you considered adoption? I ask the question because I have a very dear friend who is unable to conceive and she and her husband are in the process of adopting. Although there are many black babies with health problems (crack babies) available for adoption, there are fewer healthy babies.
I certainly don't want to add to your confusion in this difficult time, but I did want to give you another option!
Be blessed....
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