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Originally posted by PrettyPetite:
Lastly, if you do decide to bring life into this world, do not EVER doubt for a second that a man would not want you. If you are a strong positive woman who is about something, then believe me, a REAL man would be able to see this, and wouldn't be hesitant to be with you. I'm not speaking garbage here, I am speaking from what I have seen in quite a few situations.
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Exactly. I personally do not believe in abortion, and I don't want to turn this post into a war for or against it. However, whatever your decision may be, make sure it excludes because you think someone may not want you if you have a child. Right now it may be hard for you to see how, but trust me, you're still very young - you can still get married, even with a child. As the sista said, as long as you are a strong, positive woman, men will be attracted to that light. Also, as far as the financial strain ~ everything happens for a reason. Maybe this is a test of your faith. God created the oceans and the mountains, ~ and He will certainly be able to take care of you and your child by making a way out of no way. Put all of your faith in Him.
Take Care.